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Solitude

Wildheart S9E7: The gifts and shadows of being and feeling alone

In this week’s episode we chat about sitting with solitude.

Why have we chosen to talk about solitude?

  • As a time of going within and seeking soul wisdom, winter can be more focused on the individual self than the other seasons.

  • This middle part of winter, however, is also often a time of celebration and gathering, which can feel lovely and uplifting, or it can feel totally the opposite depending on your circumstances. Sometimes we need or want a way to find a bit of space for ourselves, to take some time alone.

  • It’s also a time that can feel really lonely because of the focus on ‘typical’ midwinter festivities and what these ‘should’ look like - we can often feel the heaviness of pressure and expectations.

What do we chat about?

  • Solitude as an intentional choice to be alone, and how that differs to the unwelcome and uncomfortable experience of loneliness

  • How the interpretation of what it means to be alone has changed over time

  • The connection between solitude and self, and what it means to be “wholly oneself”

  • Aloneness as a profound existential concept

  • The cyclical inhale / exhale of deep connection and deep solitude, through which each facilitates the other

  • And lots more besides…this episode is a particularly deep one!

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